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无惧岁月 笑看人生

Fear Not to Grow Old

and Enjoy Your Life with Smile


时光匆匆,岁月悠悠,转眼间,2018年就到了年终。2018年发生了很多意料之中和意料之外的事情。意料之中的事还好,尽在把控之中。碰到意料之外的事有时会措手不及,但也有好处,它能警醒我们世事未必如愿,也能激励我们行动刻不容缓。有些意外敦促我们改变现状,有些意外则表明我们期待的改变已经在发生。在年初的时候,FAY分别找了我和我们部门成员沟通交流,随着公司业务模式的调整,我们不能一直沉溺于自己的那块小天地,躺在过去的成就上。作为支持部门,要走出去,要深度参与,要和业务部门一起并肩奋斗,给予业务部门更多更专业的支持。

With the quick passage of time the year 2018 is now coming to its end before we notice it. Many expected and unexpected things happened in 2018. While we had complete control over expected things and were OK with them, we sometimes were caught unprepared by unexpected things. However, there is yet something good about un unexpected thing: It reminds us that life is not a bed of roses, and that we shall brook no delay in action. Sometime accidents urge us to make changes in the current situation; others indicate that the changes we have longed for have been taking place. At the beginning of the year, Fay communicated with me and other members in my department respectively. In fact, with the adjustments in the business model of CNOOD, we cannot afford to confine ourselves in our own old, small world and rest on the laurels. As a supporting department, we must go out for in-depth involvement. We should fight side by side with business departments and give them much more professional support.



作为一名老员工,我很庆幸自己来到CNOOD 这个大家庭,身边一群活力充沛的小伙伴,志同道合的朋友、家人也时刻让我感受到家的温暖。工作上让我有了一片新天地,不再像过去一样整天埋在信用证和单据堆里,做出来的单据可以论斤来算,日复一日、毫无激情的工作,一眼望到头的职业生涯,其实也挺没意思的。现在我有机会接触到新的领域,学习更多新的知识,工作内容也更有挑战性和新鲜感。在变着花样的挑战中提高能力突破自己的瓶颈,一心寻求自身的进步,不断打磨自己。

As a veteran of the company, I feel lucky to have been to the CNOOD family, where I have many energetic colleagues around me. I can always feel the warmth of a sweet home because of the like-mined friends and family members. Instead of immersing myself in piles of LCs and documents, which could be weighed by kilogram, I am now able to embrace a new world. Insipid daily work and a career with nothing new to expect have no attraction for me at all. Now I have the chance to get into new areas and learn more new things, doing jobs with more challenges and novelty. Through various challenges I enhance my abilities and break the bottleneck in my career, earnestly seeking personal progress and continued refinements.



2018年中有段时间也非常焦虑,焦虑工作的压力,焦虑孩子的学习、家里老人的身体状况……害怕失败,害怕批评,害怕失去……等等。后来跟一个好友聊天,她说,其实现在像你这样情况的人很多,每天活在焦虑中,而这种焦虑主要是在于自己总是在做加法,要更多,越要越觉得自己缺失;不敢停下来,每天都在追着时间的脚步跑,逼着自己往前。其实不妨放慢自己的节奏,善待自己,放松身心。忙时就做到专注,闲下来时,享受当下,享受生活中小小的幸福。人生不如意十之八九,但是我们都在努力地活着。在最苦的时候要乐观,在最难的时候要坚持。等回过头看所经历的艰难的日子的时候,以往走的每一步都是授予未来的勋章。与其抱憾和不舍,不如放过自己,试着让自己过得坦然充实,好好生活,努力赚钱,摒弃不必要的负担,对自己负责。

As a matter of fact, I felt great anxiety during a period in 2018. I was anxious about the pressure of work, the school record of my kid, and the health conditions of my parents… I was afraid to fail, to receive criticism, or to lose something important… Later, a good friend of mine said in a chat with me, "There are many people who are exactly like you, living in constant anxiety. They are experiencing anxiety because they always ‘add things up’ and want something more. The more they want, the stronger is their feeling of lacking something. They dare not have a pause and race against time every day, forcing themselves to go ahead. However, it will do no harm to slow down, be kind to yourself and just relax. Concentrate on your work when busy; enjoy the present moment and the small happiness in life at your leisure. As the saying goes, ‘If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.’ But we still try to live a worthy life. Be optimistic in the hardest times and hold on under the most adverse circumstances. When we look back on the tough days we once had, we would see every step as a medal for the future. Instead of being regretful and reluctant to part, you had better let youself off and try to have a full, composed life. Live, work hard and make more money. Get rid of unnecessary burdens. Be responsible for yourself."



新的一年,放下过去,让心归零。在过去的一年里,对于所收获的,满怀感激,对于所失去的,也不要太过遗憾;认认真真的道别,再继续前行。很多事情,我们无法控制,便只能控制自己。别让过去的阴霾,影响了未来的灿烂。愿我们都能用心对待身边的人,用心把该做的事做好,按照内心所想的去生活,努力成为更好的自己。

In the coming new year, let us forget old things and clear our mind. Be grateful for what we get in the past year, and yet don’t feel too sorry for what we lose. Say goodbye seriously to the past before moving forward. We cannot control many things; what we can do is to control ourselves. Never let shadows in the past days impact the splendor of future. May we be able to treat people with a genuine heart, do a good job in what we should do, live according to our inner principles, and endeavor to be a better person.


作者简介 About Author


姜洁 Tina Jiang

作为一个6岁小女孩的妈妈,在陪伴孩子的过程中发现不只是孩子需要成长,自己也需要不断成长,只有自己变得更好,才有能力把孩子教育得越来越好。慢慢地,你会在孩子成长的过程中,发现TA的身上透漏着你的气质。你的动作,你的话语,甚至是你的脾气都在影响着TA。因为你努力的样子,孩子也看得到。

As the Mom of a six-year-old little girl, Tina Jiang has realized, while being with the child, that not only the child but also herself need to grow constantly. You will be able to educate your child and make him/her become better and better only if you become better yourself. Gradually you will find your temperament reflected in your child while he/she is growing. A child is influenced by your gestures, speeches or even your temper. After all, the way you make effort is also seen by your child.


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